I definitely was pretty much bisexual but started leaning towards men. And then pretty much only man gay now and out and open about it. I was like that too there was stuff I'd loved when things I thought were not for me. A hairy ass was actually want to know something flipped and as I got gayer things so on the place now I love hairy ass I love all ass just love being gay.
I turned from straight to bi in my 30's. I really love being attracted to both sexes. I just wish that I was born bi so that I don't have to hide my real sexuality from my wife and others. But I do remember than when I was straight I would "put up" with a guy like you do, but wouldn't want to touch his hairy ass. It's ironic, because now I crave pubic hair on men.
I don't mind a woman involved I prefer a not to happen but it's okay. If I have to revert back to heterosexual days I guess I can as long as I'm taking it for team dick that's fine. A big plus is if she has a strap-on now that's a lot better and if I have to put my cock in her I will again I'll take one for the team. But now gay happy and completely out of time the servicing those cocks because I would be there. And my fat dick and a man's ass with her strap-on up in line it is fairly appetizing though.